like actually that’s the goal for my son to take care of whoever he’s with, bc it’s in his heart to do so. as long as she’s not taking advantage of him we good.
LADIES ONLY: If you had a son, and he was acting like a personal driver for his girlfriend, constantly spending money on her and doing everything for her. what would you do?
Some lady on Instagram said that our standards should be so high that men break patriarchy within themselves and as a system to be able to reach women.
I’m sorry that was your experience, but as someone who loves movies. It made the experience of watching a move so much more than just pressing play. We got dressed, drove to blockbuster & browsed the aisles together or separately picking our own movies. Hoping the movie you wanted was in stock(having a backup in mind) Then we met at the snack section & grabbed popcorn & Buncha Crunch & gummy bears. We stopped & grabbed takeout on the way home & picked whose movie to watch first. It was an experience that has been minimized to browsing Netflix for 25 minutes and still not knowing what to watch, till eventually settling for watching the same show/movie you’ve seen 100x just so you can scroll on your phone 2/3 of the time.
this girl on TikTok said, "take care of yourself so you don't become a hater when you see a woman doing better than you." ...& she was right. a lot of women don't realize the hate they throw at other women is really unhealed envy. you're not mad at her, you're mad because she's doing what you keep saying you'll do but haven't had the discipline, mindset, or courage to start.