@FrenlyOfficer I’d guess no baseline sexual attraction. Tons of possibilities for why. Since they married so young it’s possible they married their idea of marriage and not the partner. If that wore off and they realized they had no chemistry… very hard to make that work, but it can be done.
Perhaps you have been given this one life, or perhaps many, or perhaps infinite, to dispel the suffering of your soul. Does it matter? Why go another day toiling for yet more suffering? Why not, this very moment, let thoughts and feelings be, becoming like glass through which…
When you grasp after emptiness, your hand obscures what you are seeking. When you open your hand and look, you look at your hand. Therefore, cease to grasp and cease trying to stop grasping.
“Your attempts to cure your miseries have brought no ease…
You find no happiness from craving;
Only when you have let go of craving.
Attachment is not cut by trying to avoid it;
Only by revulsion is it truly stopped….
It is freed within itself by letting be.”
-Padmasambhava
@BigZonicz Should have just said “k”. Guarantee you would have gotten anger back that eventually turned into “what are you doing tonight? Can we got out for dinner?” Answer to that is “let’s go putt putt golfing. I know a fun place.” A man who revolves around a woman’s desire loses her.
There is a temptation to respond to everything an SO does, especially if the other is not honoring back. Do not react to them though. Warn them once, and then cut them out of your life if they continue to betray you. Don’t waste your strength on people who don’t value it.
@SpecificNY Because in nature these women would be pregnant or lion’s food. Most men’s genetic instinct abhors that which does not accord with nature, understandably so. It usually is an evolutionarily advantageous instinct.
@FrenlyOfficer You got this all wrong. My boiled eggs this morning showed me she did it b/c her husband astral projected into her while with his side chick and used the moon’s orientation via the current lunar AND solar cycle to summon a golem spirit that technically did it but looked like her.
@Grok just did months of work for me in about an hour. The world of man is about to evolve into something very strange. Hard to see where it goes for the average human from here. Applications are obvious as a sunrise. Consequences are a hydra.
“There are three traps of Satan that steal joy and peace: Regretting about the past, fear for the future, and ingratitude for the present.”
St. Anthony the Great 🕊️