What men call “dirty talk” vs what women actually want to hear
Man’s version:
• “You’re so wet”
• “Take this d*ck”
• “Good girl” on repeat
• Talking about how tight she is
Woman’s version:
My boyfriend always uses “we” when I’m stressed, scared, or dealing with something difficult. “We’ll figure this out.” “We’ll get through this.” And I don’t think he realizes how much those little words mean to me. It reminds me that I don’t have to face everything alone. I have someone beside me.
I fear the hottest relationship dynamic is when a woman acts like a chaotic little creature and the man finds it genuinely hilarious instead of spiritually exhausting. Like, he’s not trying to tame her he’s just entertained, deeply fond, and occasionally wondering what the hell is going on 😭