i think it’s fascinating how awful people can treat you & somehow convince themselves they were truly good people towards you. & the fascinating part is how genuine their belief is in the idea that they caused no harm. like wow.. the brain is truly something… incredible.
never re-friend or re-family someone who has tried to destroy your character, finances, or relationships. a snake may shed its skin, but it only grows into a larger snake.
I’m one of the most genuine people you’ll ever meet. My heart is pure, and my energy radiates lightttt.. That’s why I’m blessed overly and been that girl my whole life!
a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
+ you owe those you disrespect, respect. accountability is a personal act of integrity and moral principles. we will forever live in a broken society, until we learn to account for our actions that impact other peoples lives negatively (2/2)
this generation doesn’t know how to build healthy relationships.. we end up saying stuff like “i don’t owe anyone anything.” you do owe people something. you owe those you offended an apology. you owe those who gave you support, gratitude (1/2)
everybody wants peace until they realize peace means changing your tone when speaking with someone who has irritated you, no longer making everything an argument, listening before responding, setting boundaries and understanding boundaries others have set.