As the school year ends, please remember this:
Not every child is excited for summer.
For some students, school is the safest place they know.
It is where they get meals, connection, routine, encouragement, positive attention, counseling, friendships, structure, and adults who notice when something feels “off.”
So when behaviors increase this time of year, try to look deeper.
Some kids are not acting out because they are “bad.”
Some are anxious about losing the one place that felt predictable, connected, and safe.
The student becoming more emotional, angry, withdrawn, clingy, or difficult may actually be grieving the upcoming loss of community and support.
As a therapist and former principal, I’ve learned that behavior is often communication.
Sometimes it says:
“Will anyone notice me this summer?”
“Who will check on me?”
“What if I feel alone again?”
A little more patience matters right now.
A little more compassion matters right now.
A little more connection matters right now.
Never underestimate the power of:
“I’m proud of you.”
“You matter here.”
“I’ll miss you.”
“You made this place better.”
Some kids are counting down the days until summer.
Some kids are counting down the days until they lose the place that felt most like home.
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Excited to kick off Cohort 15 of the N2 Learning Principals’ Institute! Grateful for the opportunity to connect, learn, and grow alongside inspiring leaders. Looking forward to the growth, reflection, and impact this school year will bring! 💡📚✨
#TXPVI
This incredible recognition is a testament to the dedication, love, and passion our amazing staff pours into building strong relationships with our students every single day. Thank you, Zavala team, for capturing hearts and changing lives. This is just the beginning!
@halbowman THANK YOU for an amazing day!! Your message is incredible and inspiring! We have been in the same room a lot this summer and pretty much feels like you are family!
I appreciate your words of support as I enter my first year as principal! 🤘🏼
So proud of you brother, @CoachShawTX
Check out his podcast interview- he starts around the 7:00 mark!!
Keep working hard and doing the things you love!! https://t.co/GEZzL9fSgt
Things you can control in games:
• Effort
• Attitude
• Self-talk
• Attention
• Execution
Things you can’t control in games:
• Winning
• Refs
• Fans
• Your opponent
• Bad luck
• Weather
• The past/future
To play your best, focus only on what you can control.