idk i wish i had someone like that bc my parents dont fully listen or help yk if i had an older sibling or cousin that actually lived in this country i could dump it on them and make them help lol
im glad a lot of kpop groups leave a member older than the leader so they have someone to lean on bc i imagine being the leader is like being the eldest sibling you dont wanna tell your siblings your heavy stuff bc youre the one thats supposed to be strong and wise yk