This is why Love is the force of redemption, of knowing & of God. Because it has you see everything in its primordial purity & perfection. And why the Lover is the only one who is truly free, the only victor & the world & hereafter belongs to him/her! My Love is mine, the perfect image of them eternally inside of me, the whole world redeemed, a Garden of Delight, through me! You need to stop with this shame — let them witness their Perfection even for a second. You cannot lose because your Love is YOURS!