Last night on our way home from grocery shopping Chase looked over at me and said, “They’re really just gonna have to bury me with you if you go before I do” 🥺🥺 I LOVE this man.
a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Date emotionally intelligent men who handle conflict with maturity. A man who lets you know when he is annoyed with you instead of bottling up inside, who treats U with respect, even when he is struggling not to scream at you. A man who is willing to make compromises, bcz of love
it’s so sad that some people (even platonically) think people are needy and asking for too much when asking for a little reassurance in their relationships. Reassurance is normal and easy to give if you genuinely care about that person and making them feel safe.
Saw a tiktok about surrounding yourself around those who just get it. Not having to overly explain yourself, change up your humor or anything and i felt that. I love my people that just get me, because its exhausting trying to explain you.
Please date men who are sweet. Please date men who are emotionally available. Please date men who are Provider. Please date men who are soft spoken & patient with you. Please date men who respect your opinion in a fight. Life is already hard, atleast spend it with a good person.
marry a man who's a provider. that doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. he'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. a responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.