In 1975, my family were known as “Gold People” in Vietnam—wealthy, influential, and certain our world would last forever. One night it shattered. This is the true story of how we lost everything, survived the boats and camps, rebuilt in America, and how the real monster followed me for thirty years. #OvercomingTrauma #VietnameseRefugee
@elonmusk@megbasham Elon please have your very talented people create an AI version of this movie and release it the same day as this dumbass movie releases. Put it on x. This will show how insignificant these Hollywood people really are.
We are all passengers in the same scarred vessel. It bears the marks of countless storms—yet it remains afloat. Today, for the first time, I am simply learning to enjoy the view from the deck.
Thank you for reading my story. If it moved you, I would be grateful for a repost. More reflections on wellness, mindset, and letting go of the past are coming soon. #VietnameseRefugee #AnxietyRecovery
In 1975, my family were known as “Gold People” in Vietnam—wealthy, influential, and certain our world would last forever. One night it shattered. This is the true story of how we lost everything, survived the boats and camps, rebuilt in America, and how the real monster followed me for thirty years. #OvercomingTrauma #VietnameseRefugee
The Final Shore
I write this today from a house in Florida that has never been searched. I am finally putting down the cigarette the way my father put down the gold. I don’t need quiet anymore. I need to be here. Present. #anxietyRecovery
V. The Monster in the Room
I escaped war and the ocean, but not the fear that everything could vanish again. A single cigarette became a thirty-year prison. The real monster was not nicotine—it was bone-deep anxiety and hyper-vigilance. I lived as a man standing watch over a life I was terrified would disappear.
IV. The Betrayal in Biloxi
In America, a sponsoring family took us in—then rummaged through our bags for the gold they assumed we still carried. Their kindness had been a transaction. We moved to Tacoma, slept in coats because we could not heat the government housing, and my mother’s hands never lost the red from the strawberry fields.
III. The Island of the Broken
We landed at Pulau Tengah. For six months we lived behind wire, yet as children we found wonder on the shoreline. Even when everything is broken, there is still room for peace—if the family stays together.