My 5 year old son has the hardest time going to sleep. He usually will get up out of bed at least once to test me.
Tonight it was twice. Exhausted and frustrated, I could feel my patience waning.
“Daddy!”
“COLTON, GO TO BED,” I barked.
“But daddy, I need you.”
And just like that, I melted. There was something about those words that pierced me. “I need you.”
There will come a day sooner than I’d like where he will say those words to me for the last time. Sons do not need their fathers forever, after all.
So, I walked into his room, I got on one knee and I told him how special it was to me that he needs me to put him to sleep every night. I told him he won’t need me like that anymore when he’s a grown man and so it makes tonight special. I feel like he understood. He was fully in the moment with me.
Then I rubbed his back and his head for a few minutes, kissed him, and said goodnight.
He was asleep 5 minutes later.
I realized that in that moment I could have easily lost my temper and scolded him for refusing to go to bed (something I’m guilty of doing before) — and I would have missed out on this absolutely priceless moment with my young son who is growing by the day. And for what?
The older I get, the more I realize how important the seemingly insignificant decisions we make all day every day really are. They compound just like an investment and over years, you could miss out on an unfathomable amount of value in the most priceless asset: time.
Going to try to remember this night.
@_Torgerson02 update...Guess who just got cleared to leave the hospital!!!..I truly feel everyone's prayers and support is what made this happen..I can't say thank you enough to each one of you!
Update on @_Torgerson02 .. he got out of the hospital bed for the 1st and went for a short walk!! Dr's said blood on brain has not gotten worse..so thankful he is improving so quickly ..again thank you all..
Ashton: had a decent night,Dr's were just in and said there will be some more tests this morning..if those look good they're going to try to get him up for a walk and see how he reacts to being up and on his feet...Again thank you, we are all overwhelmed with the support..
Update on Ashton @_Torgerson02
Passed back ,neck tests waiting on CT scan... 1st thing he asked me was what place was he in!!.. you have no idea how much the support means to Ashton and the family...
@Ledger35L what a great podcast with Cody tonight. Find out how he is doing after the injury, what it took to get back and he is actually racing this weekend. https://t.co/6thFNfUIce
Official CLR Statement:
Due to the accident in September, Cody will not be racing the 2022 Chili Bowl. We are excited to announce that @CarsonMcCarl will be piloting the 35L in Tulsa, OK on January 15th-20th.
All of you drivers/teams that were going to race at @I30_Speedway this weekend with the @LucasOilASCS , feel free to head that rig north to @I80Speedway for two great days of 360 sprint car racing.
It was great to see Cody and his family today and deliver the gas cards. Thank you everyone who donated. Together we raised $775.00 to help get Cody to his doctors appointments. It truly is amazing the power of social media and the generosity that still exists in the world today.