Moi je pars du principe que si c’est dans ta Story ce n’est pas pour moi, car si tu voulais une réaction de ma part tu me l’aurais envoyé directement en pv.
Alejandra Pizarnik escribió: «Estuve pensando que nadie me piensa. Que estoy absolutamente sola. Que nadie, nadie siente mi rostro dentro de sí ni mi nombre correr por su sangre. Nadie actúa invocándome, nadie construye su vida incluyéndome»; intuyo que lo pensó un domingo.
Months into my grieving journey, I came to the realization that this had been other people’s reality too, long before it was mine. All those days I was living richly and happily, someone’s world had ended, that day was just my turn.
“A crooked tree lives its own life, but a straight tree is turned into wood.”
- Chinese Proverb
The idea behind this proverb comes most clearly from the writings of Zhuangzi, one of the central thinkers of Daoism in the 4th century BCE.
In the Zhuangzi, a famous story tells of a large, twisted tree that carpenters ignore because its wood is unsuitable for construction. Precisely because it is considered “useless,” the tree is never cut down and survives to live out its natural life.
Zhuangzi uses the tree as a metaphor for human life. In Daoist thought, being “useful” by conventional standards can make a person vulnerable to exploitation, control, and exhaustion. Those who are unconventional, overlooked, or unwilling to fit society’s expectations may instead preserve their freedom and live on their own terms.
Forever one of the hardest things about death for me. Life doesn’t stop for your grief. Everything around you just keeps moving with this unbearable normalcy, completely indifferent to the fact that your life has been altered forever.
Feng Shui gerçektir. Fotoğrafları sil. Eski mesajları temizle. Artık konuşmadığın insanların numarasını sil. Sana iyi gelmeyen insanlardan uzaklaş. Dolabını düzenle, giymediklerini bağışla. Telefon ekranını sadeleştir. Kullanmadığın uygulamaları sil.
Loving someone who can’t love you back in the same way isn’t weakness. It’s one of the bravest things you can do. It’s laying down your armor at their feet and saying, “I won’t fight you for what you can’t give me.” Because I loved you, and somehow, that alone means I’ve already won.