But they did in fact lie to them, they also hid an important part of themselves, a part of themselves that would be something to consider in deciding to date them, which is manipulative even subconsciously, it takes away their ability to fully make an informed decision etc
they’re saying hetslop is a misogynistic term. sorry but i don’t care if queer people think a straight ship is bad. mind you so many straight people are ruining fandom by bullying queer people and it’s not like they’re causing a fuss about the terms yaoislop or yurislop so