“And it might take forever to feel natural. To feel okay. To feel like myself again. But I will wear this restart like newly stitched up skin. Because I know it will heal eventually.”
-@_Nwai
Black men are very quick to dismiss any commentary on interracial relationships as the bitterness of unchosen black women.
Now your white wife who sleeps at a BnB when you visit your hometown is on TV questioning your manhood bc you’re not fitting the Dyan spec she ordered.
@ZweliYende_@LMkonqo That’s not true. Umntwana only belongs to his paternal family once a “lobola” for that child has been paid, others call it ukumthenga which is usually few cows. Inhlawulo got nothing to do with “ownership” of child, it’s just apology from the father.