White people vastly overestimate Taylor Swifts global reach and star power. She’s a huge pop star….for White people. She doesn’t have as large of a fan base outside of White culture. She doesn’t influence artists outside of her bubble. That’s not the marker of a legend.
the question itself is a good one though. so many people want to be like "WE just went to the courthouse. i would NEVER spend money like that on a wedding" & it's like literally nobody asked. your finances are not their finances!!
I'm learned to just enjoy life and accept myself more. Things aren't perfect, I still get stressed out sometimes but I'm learning to take things one step at a time.
Use to feel like I had to Prove myself to people a lot, but I'm starting to become more Content with just who I am.
I just want to preemptively say shut the fuck up to all the people who are going to tweet next week about how tortured they are about having to eat dinner and be civil with their racist, queerphobic and genocide supporting relatives