@HunniB_Rose@iamcardib We may not always agree or understand the choice’s others make but we have to change the way supporting and building women of color look like . Because the others are learning to treat us by watching how we treat us.
Some of yall really need to stfu about a baby you don’t have to take care of. Mind ya own pearl. We have enough people in women’s business as it is. @iamcardib made her CHOICE. Or we only pro choice when it’s convenient for us.
@HunniB_Rose@iamcardib As you should. It’s not about what you say as it is about how it’s said. The opinions being given aren’t saying I care about you they are saying you are dumb b*. Two different messages. It needs to be less about putting her down and more about building her up.
@HunniB_Rose@iamcardib And we are making assumptions to how the children are affected. How their dad treated their mom is probably worse than her have a baby by somebody else.
@HunniB_Rose@iamcardib Critique yes .. degrade no. Being pregnant is the one of if not the most vulnerable times in a woman’s life these opinions hit differently. That’s something we should be mindful of.
@HunniB_Rose@iamcardib True . But at the end of the day all of that is her choice. I tell people all the time you can be more upset about someone’s situation than they are. She has to deal with w/e consequences arise not us.
Calling someone a dumb bitch because they chose to keep their baby but it’s an inconvenience to you is diabolical. She did it the “right way” and look how that turned out. The internet always knows what’s best for someone else’s life
Ugh I was really supposed to be landing in in Europe rn so I could see beyonce #CowboyCarterTour tonight. Can’t believe I can’t make it . And @TicketmasterFR has it where I can’t sell my tickets. Hurt ain’t the word.