i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
maturing is realizing that, sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide “this is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,” and stand by it. whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
No one is ever obligated but how difficult is it to show up and help pack or unpack, ask “how can I help”, etc… community be a foreign concept to people.