the “don’t look behind” jokes about that kid from dxmon were never funny. bullying a KID the moment you see something slightly different than the pure and basic style you’re used to seeing on kpop idols is not as cool as you think it is.
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt btw im not sure if you even know who that is but i was a chrollo stan back in 2020 and as much as i don’t like to admit a meruem one, too (please don’t look that up if you don’t know who it is) so i totally get the automatic defense one
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt wait i worded it wrong, i used the grammar from my language lmao😭 not BECAUSE of severus but like IDKKK HOW TO SAY IT like just don’t want it for him ig??
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt thx but it’s not exactly an unpleasant memory for me, i js know it’s wrong and wouldn’t wish it on anyone. thank you for being nice btw
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt and maybe that’s why even if im like the BIGGEST james lover everrr and snapes not exactly on the list of my fave characters, i still dislike the ship because of severus
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt i mean i didn’t date the person but as someone with a similar experience it only seems okay to you. it was fine when it was me but when my friends are in a similar similar situation i try my best to stop it cause it is not as “romanticize-able” as it was when it happened to me
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt worse especially as kids. i guess while both of them are growing as people i could see it but the way most people like to portray the relationship, it is veryyy uncomfortable for me
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt hmm yea, i see that too. especially on tiktok ppl hate on atyd because the characters aren’t the totally new fanon versions of them, they hate it cause they’re not absolute woke ray of sunshine that they want them to be but personally i always thought they could have been even
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt and i haven’t read the fics but ive stumbled upon some videos that basically made the bullying even worse as a build up for the romance
@snapeboyfriend@fuckingwineaunt okay so if you don’t mind explain smth to me. im not really part of the fandom i just read the fics and vibe on my own so what exactly do you consider fanon james because all ive seen abt james and severus it was literally on the point of being abuser x abused