Lerato Ramotlatsi

God First. A mother. CA(SA)

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5. The Shift From Gratitude to Entitlement.

In the beginning, you were grateful for her presence in your life. You noticed the small things.

You appreciated her. Over time, gratitude can curdle into entitlement. You expect her to be there. You stop noticing. You stop appreciating. She feels taken for granted.

And nothing kills female desire faster than feeling like an appliance rather than a treasure. A woman wants to be chosen, not just used.

[🌸❤️ @oddettem]

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[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

Selling two tickets to friends of Amstel due to work commitments.
If interested please let me know

[Sibu Mabena @sibumabena]

Guys… sorry for this very unsolicited advice but having recently lost my mom and now having to consolidate all of her affairs, (lucky for me, sis was quite organised but there are still some gaps we’re filling because we didn’t know), I have some tips for those who have a chance to try to get organised.

If your parents are still alive, here’s what you can TRY to do (cos I know some of them are very untrusting about stuff and will think you’re trying to come for ilefa prematurely 🥺🫣) but honestly, the peace I’m yearning for right now will be worth the effort I’m advising you to employ.

1. Prepare a file that has the following:
- Parents’ ID copies
- Parents’ Marriage Certificate (even the one from the lobola meeting)
- Parents’ Divorce Decree if divorced
- All title deeds reflecting their names and car ownership papers
- Municipal bills for the properties and logins to the e-portals for the municipal accounts (this is one of the most stressful things to sort out when the owner is no longer alive…YOH!)
- Bank statements (you can locate debit orders)
- Their pension fund administrators details
- Any business registration certificates and shareholders certificates
- Copies of all their latest policy schedules
- If your parents trust you and you won’t scam them, A list of their logins to their email addresses
- A list of their financial advisors and lawyers and doctors and their contact details
- A list of their creditors and contact details
- A list of their debtors and contact details
- An asset registry with a list of all their assets
- A list of their monthly bills (Dstv, telkom etc and the statements)

2. If this is at all possible, it will save a lot of headache
- Have a meeting with your parents and your siblings to allocate roles and responsibilities in the event of death and record it (written usually or visually if they’re okay with that)
- Write down what their wishes are for their send offs (where do they want to be buried, do they want cremation, singing on singing, which church must conduct etc etc and where the money for all this is coming from). Yea, they won’t be here to dictate to you (🫩) but, it will save you a lot of stress just doing what umufi asked for and everyone (especially the aunts and uncles) know it to be true

3. When your parent does pass away, have the following in the “deceased file”
- Death certificate (and certified copies)
- Hospital or Coroners report or notice of death
- Updated ID with stamp saying Deceased
- Burial notice
- Undertaker Notice

Lastly… get your parents to draft a will with a lawyer and nominate an executor whilst they are still alive 😭🥺😮‍💨 if you can invest in this, it will ease the administrative burden on you guys who have to take over when they are no longer alive.

Losing a parent you are close to is one of the most painful things you’ll ever experience in your existence… help yourself by not having to be in pain and highly frustrated because things weren’t organised when you had the chance.

* I know this is a very difficult subject to tackle at home…and it’s even more difficult to accept the reality of death… but if you do have the privilege of a good relationship with your parents, just try. For everyone else who doesn’t get to do this, I’m really sorry 🫂 I wish things could be better for you ❤️‍🩹

I hope this helps many people.

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@RelicsTown @Baky_L Definitely not trying to scam anyone

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

Selling two tickets for balcony mix. Please hala if you interested

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@RelicsTown @Baky_L Noted thank you, yeah social media is filled with scams😭 I’m selling mine cause I have to work so I’m no longer able to attend

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@KeRethabile_M Hey I have two GA standing tickets if you haven’t gotten them yet

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@Mfanamnguni_za Hi I’m selling two GA standing tickets

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@uwandile_n Hey I’m selling two GA standing tickets

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@thando_sis @TheMetaverseMys @Phumii_Mak Hey
I’m selling if you haven’t found them yet

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

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For all your white clothes to stay whiter, use this combo

[Oríadé @michaelinioluwa]

One of the problems of growing up in a home where you could not express yourself is that when you finally grow up, you still can’t express yourself.

You can't stand your roommate bringing guys to the room but you keep quiet because you don’t like confrontation or because

[Moral Philosophy @ML_Philosophy]

How your childhood affects your love style

Psychology thread

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@GeraldKoena Automatic, I dont see a need of manual driving experience or the thrill others speak of when you change gear.😂

[Mawela👑 @mawela198]

Looking for people who are unemployed and have an IT background. Please hit me up.

[Lerato Ramotlatsi @Lerato_RM]

@Vicky_DaRealist You need to do it online, I downloaded their app and did it there. They literally keep billing until you actually cancel contract

[carly ntshiza @nalieyo]

I love my baby so much, I feel fuzzy everytime I see her. But ingaske sometimes ebengekho. But zalile zalile wethu and there is not a dem thing I would do.

I just feel lonely sometimes. Motherhood is lonely and just draining. So I just wanna go out and have fun but she's little.

[Nomusa❤ @_Nomusa__]

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