well sometimes it is intense but most of the time im indifferent to romantic and sexual intimacy. idk it’s a lil bit hard to connect as seeing so many radlesbs and more.
i find it hard to find other aroace (spectrum, as for me) lesbians bc most of the time they feel that constant love n desire for women, and mine just fluctuates. i think it might just be my avoidant tendencies in work as well but even when i do feel stuff, it lacks intensity…
you are not a femme if you hate on the other members of your community that we’re meant to support and protect. stone butches/high femmes are valid, asexual lesbians are valid, trans and gnc lesbians are valid. what isn’t acceptable is this narrow mindset that’s being circulated