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Your purpose isn't lost. You just haven't been shown where to look. ๐
Any man who uses submission as a weapon has already disqualified himself from headship.
You do not demand submission.
You create the conditions that make it natural.
When a woman is loved sacrificially, submission is not a burden. It is a response.
Men,
God did not create woman from man's head - that she should be commanded.
He did not create her from his feet - that she should be his slave.
He created her from his side - that she should be near his heart.
Read that again. Then go home and change.
In a marriage set up,
Submission has nothing to do with a woman surrendering her will, her intellect, her gifts, or her personality.
Biblical submission is a submission of position โ not personhood.
She submits to your role.
Not to your ego. Not to your moods. Not to your immaturity.
Authority without love is abuse.
Many men are hiding behind the word "headship" to justify control, silence, and dominance.
That is not headship.
That is a man who is afraid of his own wife.
A man secure in his identity does not need to dominate anyone.
The husband bears overall responsibility for the health and welfare of his wife and family.
But he is not the boss.
Responsibility without control - that is the definition of true headship.
It is the hardest role a man will ever occupy.
Husbands,
Headship is not rulership.
Headship is leadership.
A ruler enforces compliance through fear.
A leader earns loyalty through sacrifice.
The day you stopped leading and started ruling, you lost your wife's heart. Even if she never told you.
@Tunex01 Both factors do play a part. But the most important one is the personal issue. The individuals should create in themselves values and skills that solve problems in the world. Skills that cannot be ignored. That's how they become valuable and money follows them.
Very true. Human beings were designed to interact with nature. Children should play in the sun, in the fields, in the soil, in the mud and even in the rain.
This helps the developing body adapt well to its environment, the body gets stronger and the immunity system develops perfectly.
This prevents children from frequent illnesses that keep them in and out of the clinics. This ensures the baby develops mentally and physically active to be an adult with less health problems.
The husband bears overall responsibility for the health and welfare of his wife and family.
But he is not the boss.
Responsibility without control, that is the definition of true headship.
It is the hardest role a man will ever occupy.
Most men in marriage are playing the wrong role.
They think they are the head.
But they are operating like a boss.
These are not the same thing.
And the confusion between the two is quietly destroying marriages all around you.
Most men think being the head of the house means being the boss. It doesn't.
A boss controls.
A head covers.
A boss demands obedience.
A head earns trust.
One produces a fearful wife.
The other produces a flourishing one.
Know the difference.