Privacy is power and protection. Don't overshare and tell people more than they need to know. Some people talk to you to talk about you. Living in private, dating in private, making money in private, healing in private, unlearning in private, and growing in private is self-care.
I think sometimes people who are quick to detach and go silent, gave something their all. They may have tried speaking up, making effort etc. and none of it was noticed so they silently give up instead of feeling like they’re begging.
there were things i said years ago that i no longer agree with today. there were things i did years ago that i do not do so anymore. no, i am not two faced, i am simply growing and changing as i should be.
as we all should be.
if i start crying in front of you that means i’m really hurting. because believe me, i hate crying in front of people. but when i do, i must be in severe pain and i just can't control it.
i swear you hit an age where the late nights & hangovers aren’t fun anymore like all i wanna do is relax, bond with the people i love, save my money, & build my future