Do you remember in The Lion King when scar told the hyenas if they helped him become king he will make their lives better and then their lives didn’t get better and he blamed them for it.
And upon realizing this, the hyenas ate him.
Do with that story what you will.
Anytime my husband and I fought, I stopped cooking.
I didn’t care if he had eaten or not.
I would just make food for myself and leave him to sort himself out.
He never argued. He would simply order food or fix something for himself.
I’d only resume cooking when I was calm again.
Then one month, we had another fight… and as usual, I didn’t cook. The month ended, and he still sent my allowance…
Plus the full foodstuff money like he always does. He even sent the money he had promised my dad.
I was surprised. I asked him why he would still send food money when I hadn’t been cooking.
He simply said,
“Because it’s my responsibility.”
I felt so ashamed.
That was the last time I ever did that.
Now, even when I’m upset, I still cook for him.
And I’ve noticed something…
Most of our quarrels don’t even last anymore.
Somehow, we always end up talking things out while eating.
Small things like this save marriages.
As I figured … 404 day has been saturated by out of town party promoters and djs. I’ll be having a cookout next year … tequila , me on the grill and Atlanta music ONLY