to build a reliationship, kadang kita harus menerima kalo kita bukanlah 'someone's first experience' meski dia adalah first experience kita. yg artinya, selain nyiapin cinta yg sebanyak-banyaknya, kita juga harus nyiapin ruang kecewa yg sebesar-besarnya.
semoga nanti aku ketemu someone who’s sure about me, genuinely wants me in their life, never hesitates to choose me, and never makes me question if I’m enough or what I mean to them. someone who chooses me as much as I choose them, because I’ll do the same and love deeply
MENURUT GUA kalo sedih mah sedih aja, upset mah upset aja... nggak usah dilawan dengan pura-pura gapapa like nothing happened. Something clearly happened and your feelings didn’t come out of nowhere. They’re valid, you’re allowed to react to what hurt you. Just saying lho ya✌🏻