Be around people who never make life feel like a competition. They genuinely celebrate your happiness, support your dreams, and clap for your success, even when no one is watching.
If you were emotionally or physically abandoned as a child, the worst things that could ever happen to you have already happened.
You're running from what is and in doing so, creating more Self-abandonment and chaos.
SLOW DOWN. See what you're experiencing. No more running,
Accountability is the most uncomfortable gift anyone will ever give you. And most people will hate you for it in the moment. Give it anyway. They'll thank you in the distance. Or they won't. Either way, you told the truth.
Everyone wants to be mentally tough until it's time to do mentally tough things. Sitting with discomfort. Having hard conversations. Accepting
responsibility. Mental toughness is boring. It's just choosing hard over easy repeatedly.
So many people still donβt understand that their partnerβs request for change is not asking them to change who they are, but to modify the patterns that are hurting the relationship.
Nothing will destroy a relationship faster than watching your partner
show up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. They have the ability, just not for you.
The people we become closest to aren't always the ones we have the most in common with.
Sometimes they're simply the ones who happened to be standing beside us while life was changing.
The amount of strength it takes to choose to be alone instead of poorly surrounded, is extremely underrated If you were strong enough to choose yourself, I honor you.
You can't fuck up anything that is meant for you, so stop being so scared of what will happen. Trust your intuition and let your heart and soul guide you on this journey.
I promise you, you can not mess anything up that is meant for you.