At 37yo I got surprise pregnant (AFTER my husband's vasectomy) with my 5th child.
I was scheduled to have a c-section so at my 28 wk appt I asked to have my tubes tied immediately after the birth.
My obgyn refused, saying I was too far along in my pregnancy to make that call.
most of my closets friends have been in my life for 10+ years and i have to say, watching them be aunts to my daughter is an absolutely surreal experience. everyone says you lose friends when you have a baby but mine couldn’t love her more and i’m so thankful for that 🥺