High-empathy individuals with strategic detachment can predict human behavior without bias. They don't leave angry. They leave in quiet. And quiet is the most permanent exit.
Every girl should experience her own apartment, groceries in the fridge, candles lit, everything exactly how she wants it, and no man stressing her out. It really is a luxury experience.
Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted
you realize you’re a woman and not a little girl when you start ignoring messy people altogether. walk away humble, walk away graceful, but know deep down they miserable and that’s why they talk so much. drama is an escape for some of y’all and it shows. y’all live for it, but please know i can’t and won’t be bullied. play it safe, love.
People be so bad needing you to be fucked up behind their opinion of you or the stupid shit they say to you. That make them feel powerful. But you’d literally have to spend a lifetime trying to break a bitch like me.