These are common mistakes amongst men that need to STOP:
1. Bro, when you catch your woman cheating, you have no business with the man. It is your woman who opened her legs. Ignore the man, hold ONLY your woman accountable.
2. When you see a man with his woman in public, attempting to get her number is not you being “street smart”. It is you being a razz snitch on your fellow bro and being a disgrace to the brotherhood.
The reason people cheat is not just limited to money. One side we are not discussing is the sex.
If you follow social conversation, you'll catch the drift. Women limit what they do with their own partners so he doesn't think the worst of them, while unleashing the Jezebel in them with the person they are cheating with. If the person is paying, it makes it worse because he can do whatever he wants to get value for his money. Meanwhile, the man you claim to love is starving. Simple things like head, some won't give their man but would be gawking another man to death.
Men on the other hand also limit what they do with their women to love making because they can't bring themselves to do certain things with a woman they love or because they don't want her to squeeze face and accuse them of treating her like a whore. So you catch another person's babe and you unleash the animal in you to the point she doesn't even have strength to sleep with her own partner.
I beg you in the name of the god you serve and the one you don't serve, whatever demon in you that you want to exorcise through sex, do it with your partner. It is unfair that you give the best part of yourself to other people. How then do you want to bond sexually with your own partner when your best sex are with other people? Don't downplay the importance of sex in relationship and marriage abeg
The problem with this generation is its value system. What they are doing in Nigeria is not love.
They keep monetizing love and commitment, and asking men to go for only women they can afford, while constantly brokeshaming the poor and telling them they don't deserve love or relationship and should focus on making money.
As a consequence, you cannot regulate how many women a man who has hustled and made money can have. You have to be consistent. He can afford 30 women, so he would carry 30.
If you want to promote healthy relationship, you have to stop monetizing relationship and commitment. You cannot be selling commitment and asking to be the only client. It doesn't work that way. People are not stupid. The buyer knows you are for sale and he knows he can buy many of you. Innocent people are just the collateral damage of this value system. Everybody go collect
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Top Reasons Why Women End Relationships (1900–2026)
#1 is probably never getting toppled but it’s quite interesting to see how many leave their marriages due to “no emotional support”.