avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express yourself, can’t be yourself, can’t ever be straight forward, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative…
when a woman is consistently spoken to softly & treated gently, she becomes a new woman. a man can help heal her nervous system. heal her generational trauma. heal her feminine energy & allow it to flourish. heal her so much she remembers who she is
Some of y'all think you'll make good partners because you won't cheat but don't realize you're inconsiderate, unappreciative, manipulative, insecure, lack empathy, have poor communication skills, harboring emotional trauma from your past and bad at sex.😒😒😒
attentiveness as a love language. do not get me started. there’s something so wholesome about someone who listens to you so closely that even a spontaneous rant about something that annoyed you results in them showing up with a solution to make your life easier the next day/week.
THIS IS NOT LOVE‼️
Staying with someone because you love them through ups and downs is a blessing, but please understand.
Downs are not:
• Cheating
• Disrespect
• Abuse
• Manipulation
• Gas Lighting
• Control
Downs are:
• Financial Hardships
• Health Issues
• Tragic Death
• Rough Points In A Relationship
• Trouble Keeping Or Finding Individuality
STOP PUTTING YOURSELF THROUGH TRUAMA
TRYING TO PROVE TO SOMEONE
YOU LOVE THEM‼️
I’ve always been the person to help come up with solutions for others while I’m always left to figure shit out on my own and that’s cool , I just crave to be loved the way I love …
Having someone who cares about your mental health and why you feel the way you feel is very rare . Imagine offending someone bc you feel the way you do ! No one cares these days anymore ..