It’s really annoying that we realize children need a summer break and several vacations a year because they attend school, but we think it makes sense for adults to work 40 hours a week all year and probably get 2–3 weeks off in a whole year if you’re lucky.
Someone asked me, "Why is it important to be kind?"
I replied: Because you never know who is grieving, exhausted, or at their breaking point. Your kindness might be the only bit of warmth they feel today.
This girl on TikTøk said, "My problem is | get around people and start making them believe in themselves. They get around me and try to make me feel smaller than I am." I felt that so hard.
adult friendships have taught me that sometimes the person you regard as a “close friend” isn’t really your friend. and that’s okay, take your L and move on.
hardest pill i’ve had to swallow this year so far was learning that no matter how good u can be to someone, no matter how long you’ve been there for them, no matter how much u love them... that they CAN & they WILL turn their back on u. and there is nothing you can do but detach.
Men are turned off by stress. Women are turned off by inconsistency. But if he's consistent, she'll never have a reason to stress him. It's that simple.
a therapist on tiktok said…. “no one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you're the problem. healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness first”