He reputedly gave 60 mill to the Ukraine, on the top of whatever they received before. Did he pay out of his pocket, or was it because the Lord of the World told him? He did not ask any of us to do that. I would have minded if he gave them a train full of bandages, aspirin and Band Aids. But money for drones from Turkey?
They never will. The thing is, if you are TOO GOOD, you will likely hurt your loved ones. To be selfish a little is not harming anyone selfish a lot, but helping you to be assertive where it counts. It is better than a tooth for a tooth, or giving someone your cheek to be slapped again.