Pluto in the 2nd house I just watched this awesome YouTube video.
You will never have to worry about how you’ll survive or make money because you were born with talents and abilities to gather resources that will ALWAYS sustain you!!!
https://t.co/JF1l5Npdwf
People avoiding me after they’ve done me dirty is exactly what I expect. I don’t require closure. I get it. You’re a cowardly weasel. You were a weasel when you did it, you will likely respond to the situation as a weasel would.
When you address conflict with someone, generally one of two things are going to happen:
1. They’ll be offended at you setting the boundary. You setting the boundary will be enough for them the run away or start acting funny.
2. They’ll say what they need to say to shut you up before they do it again out of habit. Patterns repeat.
Relationships become longterm and stable when you assess what you’re willing to tolerate from people. Most people do not change for the better. It’s delusional to think people are out here transforming for the greater good all the time.
You don’t have to leave at the first red flag, but you do have to ask YOURSELF if you can put up with that red flag for years if it doesn’t turn green. Your needs matter.
I just realised Gandalf was a Projector
Shows up uninvited once, gets told to leave
Waits
Gets called back when everything is falling apart
Guides the entire fellowship without carrying the ring himself
We are literally this 👑
People will punish you for things others did to them. While treating those that hurt them with endless kindness. Human nature rewards rejection because they keep trying to be wanted where they’re unwanted. And use those that are kind to them as a safe space to take out misplaced anger.
5th line projections include being overly idealized and lusted after
while they seem like compliments, these projections can create heaviness and a feeling of being dehumanized, especially when young
whether having their imperfections or perfections exaggerated, 5 lines often just want a break
it’s important to be clear w ppl when that projection energy gets activated. *i’m not saying defend and deflect, but protect*
i’ll say stuff like, “don’t project on me, that’s not what i said,” or “what did i do to upset you?”
bc ppl have their own shit they’ll put on 5th line energy.