Pay attention to how people treat you during the times your supposed to be happy the most. birthdays, holidays, celebrations, big milestones… it speaks volume
Your kids don’t owe you SHIT. You chose to have them. Throwing in their face what you do for them (I buy your clothes, feed you, etc.) is wack AF.. that’s shit you’re SUPPOSED to do for them.. also your job doesn’t end at 18. Thank you.