Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️

Rebirth era 🪷
A space for clarity, self-discovery, and becoming...🌊🪷✨

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

I lost myself trying to become who everyone else needed.

Now I'm learning to choose myself.

I write about healing, self-discovery, and becoming.

If you're rebuilding too, welcome. 🌿

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@TWOTIMESABITCH Funny in theory, but it says something real: people who terrorize their own families shouldn't be mistaken for "tough."

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@ysuckme The future often doesn't arrive all at once. It begins the moment you choose differently than you did yesterday.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@libriscent Many neurodivergent people describe this experience, but it's not universal. Burnout can come from many factors, including masking, sensory overload, stress, and demands that don't match someone's needs. Meaningful work can help, but it isn't the whole picture.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@javisstunner Disney also has talking mice, magic carpets, and dragons. I don't think it's meant to be a dating manual. 😭

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@_ellerry One of life's greatest blessings is finally feeling at home in your own skin.

[•el• @_ellerry]

ngl I love my skin, I love my name, I love my face, I love my faith & mindset, I love my entire life, I love what God did with me.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@256Rootyherman Tamre!

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@GiftGrace01 Heyy mate🥹

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

People-pleasing isn't just saying "yes" too often.

It's slowly forgetting that your needs matter too.

A thread. 🧵

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Many people-pleasers weren't born that way.

They learned that keeping others happy felt safer than risking rejection.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

People-pleasing doesn't begin with kindness.

It often begins with the fear that being yourself won't be enough to keep people.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

Sometimes the fear of losing someone is not really about them.

It's about the old wound that says:

"If they leave, maybe I was never enough."

A thread about abandonment and learning to feel safe within yourself. 🧵

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

Sometimes we are not afraid of losing someone.

We are afraid of what their leaving might make us believe about ourselves.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

The best thing you can do after a breakup is get to know yourself again.

[abiola @abxola]

Rock bottom is actually a trampoline

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@abxola Rock bottom feels like the end when you're standing on it. Sometimes it's actually the foundation you're rebuilding from

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@AzPetrich It was fascinating to see how quickly some animals adapted when human activity decreased. It reminded many people that we’re not separate from nature—we’re one part of it.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@foreeeeeal Many people who are naturally humble or self-critical struggle to see their own impact. Sometimes you need other people’s reactions to remind you that you matter.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@KisssmyyK Maybe the strange part is that we overlook how unbelievable ordinary life already is—the fact that we exist, think, love, create, and experience anything at all.

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@DeeSandy20 Maybe they're waiting for the director's cut with behind-the-scenes commentary. 😭

[Rewire_with_shan☥~/✨🫧🕊️ @lightblmswthn6]

@eyojoel77 People who avoid accountability often spend more energy protecting their self-image than repairing the relationship. That's not something you can fix for them.