If she has tattoos
Her parents are probably divorced
If she has crazy hair color
Her ex probably ruined her
If she has nipple piercings
She has the body count of a p*rn star
When people say comfort is the enemy of progress, it’s not about how you sleep & how you wake up. It is psychological, it’s about how comfortable you’re with your current reality, it’s about if you think this is your final destination or not. Just saying.
Someone made a post about cutting off his girl because she’d come around for days, never offer to cook, help out, or contribute in any way, and all some of you saw was the word “cooking.”
The lack of depth in the way some of you think is actually crazy.
That is the trauma I am talking about.
You don't give birth to multiple kids then set the first born up for a life of perpetual responsibility.
A lot of first borns in Nigeria sacrifice their own lives for their younger siblings.
IT IS WRONG.
First borns are children too.
You'll think it is a lie. I know somebody that business went bad for and he wanted to change his children's school from where he was paying over a million naira per term because he couldn't afford it.
The wife refused that it would be embarrassing for her, and told the man to go look for the money. Shishi, she no dey drop ooo. Men be making stupid decisions because they can't put their foot down and say No to their wife.
If you tell men like this one now that it is a foolish decision, they would say na because na woman give the advice, I dey call am foolish. They will tell you to marry first.
Modern men will never say the truth about their marriage.
"Marry first" but egbon I'm seeing your own marriage clearly and you're not even happy, why you advising me? 😭