I will never romanticize that so-called black cat golden retriever relationship dynamic where the man is all ooey gooey in love and vying for the woman’s attention while she is waving him off and semi rolling her eyes. Have you ever seen a woman in love, like actually in love? She is feral. I want to feel safe enough to go feral! I don’t want women to rot with unexpressed love. I don’t want women to feel they will be punished for showing happiness and desire.