Your partner makes you soup when you’re sick?
Mine gently places two coins over my eyes as I rest so that I may pay the ferryman to cross the River Styx.
best dynamic is the inherent homoeroticism of wanting to be someone so bad, who you feel so fundamentally incapable of being, that u love them and hate them and worship them and want to hurt them and want to eat them and want them to eat you (this also works in a trans het way)