Pros serving a Domme with ADHD:
> constant trinket show n tells
> up at all hours
> will yap if you’re cute
> always on side quests
Cons:
> she will disappear for a few days because she hyperfixated on a new obsession and forget you exist
….oops
One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.
Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.
Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2