cathy

[cathy @lilith_rod_]

my fucking PCOS

[davey @jerseyh0mo]

Breathing in hefty lungfuls of smoke as I get explosive diarrhea from salad, the sky turns apocalyptic orange while oil companies drill in protected lands, screwworms are eating cattle alive and the president just paid $6 million for rape. And I’m also able to bet on all of it!

[Thel 🏳️‍⚧️🦌 @EPM106]

eyes wide shut

[wife-ally @dudeimnormal]

if your mom was nice to you as a child you legally have to help people

[cathy @lilith_rod_]

I'm very sorry but I think you should get a new therapist

[cathy @lilith_rod_]

I think a really healthy thing for human sociality in a hyper-mediated surveillance culture that blurs the distinction btwn work and leisure time would be to encourage everyone to stop before having any kind of social interaction and decide which category of behavior to perform

[aether @bluewdrift]

my therapist changed my life when he taught me there are 4 types of conversation:

1) small talk (weather, etc)
2) swapping (you tell a story, I tell a story)
3) listening (you tell a story, I listen/validate)
4) problem-solving (you tell me a story, I help solve the problem)

[cathy @lilith_rod_]

standpoint epistemology for they but not for she

[keysmashbandit @keysmashbandit]

Remember: adult "attachment theory" was developed in the late 2010s primarily as a form of intrasexual competition between psychology majors. You shouldn't allow it to propagate outside of that niche because it is an invasive species that outcompetes other relational frameworks

[Sofia ''Buff Girlfriend'' @sofiabuffgf]

Voice training to sound like Marisa Tomei

[Maia @maiamindel]

"the us is founded on prison, police, and private property" is like an angela davis caliber line if we're being honest

[a.j. ⚧️🛸 @normalmaxxedaj]

when you have a family who always was and is this psychopathic to you, people just don’t believe you unless they also had an upbringing like this and are honest with themselves about it. it’s one of those invisible traumas that totally warps your reality and sets you off on an insane trajectory from the minute you’re born & everyone else pretends like they have no idea why you are the way you are. you will only get better the day you acknowledge that almost everyone around you has been playing a sick joke on you your whole life and you aren’t actually crazy at all. in fact, you are the only sane and honest person in the room

[yoshimi battles video game addiction @nise_yoshimi]

this is what they were doing in china until deng xiaoping invented money

[Eyup Lovely @eyuplovely]

KEIR STARMER HEARD THE MUSIC.

THANK YOU AND GOODNIGHT.

[ethel cainhurst † @durendoll]

ominous....

[tender @tenderizzation]

6-7 decades of computer systems research in a nutshell

[cathy @lilith_rod_]

https://t.co/8d7msdQIfg

i am this woman every day of my life

[Future Adam Curtis B-Roll @adamcurtisbroll]

ah, falcon can hear the falconer. carry on

[Keanu Nazari 📕 @KeanuNazari]

I got thousands of rare Cultural Revolution-era photos from a historical archive here in China.

I believe some of these have never been posted online, or only exist behind extremely expensive licenses.

So here they are, for free. Open the thread for more.

[lev (sumer is icumen in) @abookofsymbols]

it is very odd to realize that CBT sort of drilled into me a tendency to intellectualize my emotions by cognitively reappraising them to death. it’s sort of like i am afraid of thinking in a black & white way so i overcompensate via “nuance” & dissociate myself