what’s for you is actively choosing you. there will be no resistance or confusion. their decision-making process will include you. they will cover and protect you, while also covering themselves. you will never be treated like an afterthought.
1 year can change your life forever. Lock in. Don’t get sidetracked by people who ain’t even on track. Race against the person in the mirror. Self-improvement might feel like a burden at first. But if you stay consistent, it will become a part of you and will feel like therapy.
@gaialect Interactions with others can indeed reveal the true depths of our struggles and serve as valuable mirrors for self-discovery. It's a delicate journey, but sometimes, facing triggers in relationships provides the clarity needed for healing.
"if you're working through trauma, why are you trying to date?" you will learn the true depths of your trauma from interacting with others. that's when you can see what exactly has to be worked on. in isolation, no one is around to trigger you. so how will you truly know?
Random thought:
It's true. You do become super slutty when you're in love. I've outdone myself. I didn't even know I had that in me. I thought I'd already reached my sexual peak. It's scary, actually.
we get to choose. we get to honor what our inner child needs as we continue to grow, reflect, heal, and learn. we don’t have to be anywhere we don’t want to be.
going through the refinement process is exhausting and things fall apart during your expansion. the life you’re designing is still coming together. trust that what’s meant to come with you, into your next chapter, will come with you and what isn’t will be upgraded in due time.
respect your process, give it whatever time it deserves, stay committed to you even when giving up feels like a more comfortable bed to lay in, remain loyal to you even when your loved ones aren’t understanding the language that you need to be loved in, respect your process.
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i strongly dislike when i want to be someone’s friend but they think that i’m romantically interested because i’m sweet so then they start acting weird until i clarify that i’m only being friendly so then they start being sweet back to me but at that point i’m already over it so i detach from them while they annoy me until i thoroughly tell them how & why i’ve lost interest in getting further acquainted before that whole relationship fizzles out as i forget that they exist until we accidentally see each other irl & i wave hello because it was never “beef” at all — just minor differences
Patterns are recurrent ways of behaving. You'll notice you can predict how the people closest to you will react to situations. You're aware of their patterns.
You can think of patterns as:
1. A series of habits
2. Coping Mechanisms
3. Core Beliefs
don’t ever stop reintroducing yourself in relationships. sometimes people forget who you are and what you need. in turn, you’ll also forget who you are and what you need.