Genuinely need y’all to fully understand the pain in his voice. That is generational trauma speaking. The Jewish holocaust survivors & their families are witnessing yet another genocide, only this time it’s being done in their name. I can only imagine the pain there
I think, if you’re in a relationship and you know your partner is upset, hurt, bothered, for whatever reason, and you think “I don’t want to deal with this again” you should just leave them because you’re not a good partner and they deserve to feel cared for when they’re hurting.