I have tremendous respect for someone, especially a leader or superior, who can make a decision or introduce a policy, realize that it was a poor one, take responsibility for it, and openly call for ideas on how to remedy the situation.
What I find frustrating is when someone makes a terrible decision, rolls it out, watches its catastrophic effects unfold, yet refuses to do anything about it simply because they don’t want to appear to have gotten it wrong. They keep defending a terrible decision even when the evidence is right in front of them. Things are going from bad to worse, yet they remain adamant about sticking with the same decision.
Some people would rather defend their decisions or ideology and watch everything burn than admit that they got it wrong. Their ego and pride become more important than the consequences of their actions.
Sometimes, all it takes is something as simple as: “Hey guys, I have thought about the earlier policy, watched how it has played out, and I have realized that it isn’t what the organization needs right now. I will be rescinding it. Let’s have a meeting, share ideas, and come up with a better policy to address the challenges we are currently facing.”
That kind of humility can save an organization from unnecessary damage. Admitting that you made a terrible decision is not weakness. Sometimes, it is the clearest demonstration of leadership.
Nigeria is dangerously not inclusive.
I know this doctor that stammers. When he goes for interview, he sees his colleague spend up to 30 mins, but his interviews doesn't go past 5 mins. He could tell they just want to dismiss him and move to the next person.
The doctor went for his PLAB exam in England. A day was set aside for doctors with speech difficulty. They were given extra time and asked if the time would be enough for them. He passed the PLAB. In Nigeria, when he takes exam, he has to finish within the alloted time given to people without difficulty.
How do we expect perfection from people who are already with personal difficulties? We need to imbibe grace as a people.
YOUR BRAIN IS BEING HACKED ‼️🔥
Your phone is not making you happy. It is making you dependent.
Every like, every comment, every notification triggers a small hit of dopamine, the same chemical your brain releases when you eat a good meal or connect with someone you love. But there is a difference. A meal satisfies. A conversation builds something real. Social media does neither. It just keeps you checking.
That is the trick. The reward is random, so your brain never learns when the next hit is coming and it keeps searching. This is the exact same design behind slot machines. Not an accident. A strategy.
The cost shows up quietly. Your attention span shrinks. Real life starts to feel boring next to the curated highlight reels you scroll past every day. Anxiety creeps in from comparing your behind the scenes to everyone else’s edited full picture.
The dopamine is real. What it is rewarding is not.
Put the phone down. Go build something that lasts longer than a scroll.
Be guided.
Mr Anthony ,a very a brave police officer , around 3pm a whole street was r*bbed by 7 armed men and he was the only one on duty , they started exchanging bullets , to cut it short he got 6 of those heavy armed men down , one out of them escape and went to re-enforce 15 new squard ,still Mr Anthony didn’t run ,e protected all the civilians in that area and got another 15 armed men down ,they shut bazooka on the complex and they were ppl and baby’s in the complex ,he rescued everyone ,despite the heavy fire 🔥.God will continue to bless you sir
Don’t take your children for holidays to stay in houses where the woman there is still struggling with fertility or has been struggling to have a child.