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[𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐘 @X_Bill_Gl]

Yesterday I told my therapist I couldn't move on.

She handed me a journal and said,

“If someone's no longer in your life but still takes up space in your thoughts, these 10 questions will help you understand why your heart keeps going back to a chapter that has already ended.”

Here they are: 1/2

[mindy🌷 @mindyisser]

cannot explain how deeply burned into my brain this is, i think about it nearly every day

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

everyone lied btw. things get better as you age, not worse. as a woman, you only become more and more powerful, beautiful and magnetic. everyone lied.

[pari passu princess @Ebitduhmommy]

As a Slavic woman, I am going to give you some advice, because I know that you need it. Be a problem. Be an absolute menace. Be as crazy as you can be, especially when it comes to men. With crazy, I don't mean cussing him out or slashing his tires. Slavic women don't do that. I mean be so unapologetically yourself that it scares him. He needs to fear you. He needs to know his place. You are the closest thing to God. He is accompanying you, but he needs to be good to deserve that place. Don't hold back. Say the thing that nobody is saying out loud. Call him out on his bullshit. Have high standards. Tell him what you want. Be up front and direct. And don't beat around the bush. The right man will think: "I have to keep this one. I am scared of her, but I need to do everything in my power to keep her." And the wrong man will eliminate himself really quickly. Because he will either know that he isn't capable of fulfilling your needs, or he will think that you are completely batshit crazy. Which is fine. Who cares? Stop being a good girl. Stop ignoring your needs and your standards just to keep a man. If you have to do that, that man is not yours to keep. But take care of yourself. Take care of your appearance. Don't walk around looking homeless. If you're going to have high standards for men, first you need to have high standards for yourself. I believe in you. Good luck.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.

[‏ً @itsnwts]

good statements for women to practice:

1. NO.
2. you interrupted me, i'm not done talking
3. that's not funny.
4. i already know that.
5. that won't be necessary.
6. you're making me uncomfortable.
7. that's not appropriate.

[goma @soigomaa]

Megan Fox is a clear example for every girl who catches her boyfriend doing something inappropriate.She ended her five year relationship with MGK after finding what she said was "devastating material" on his phone. We don't need all the details to get the picture... He had Megan freakin' Fox... and yes, he still fumbled. So if a man like that can lose a woman like her, please don't "think you need to keep giving second chances to someone who's showing you who he is. Choose yourself.

[🦢 @Fairyuxfhe]

“Women talk more than men”

In a recent study it was found that when women talked 15% of the time (and men 85% of the time), men perceived it as equal participation. And when women talked 30% of the time, men perceived it as women dominating the discussion.

[blue @bluewmist]

i don't know who needs to hear this but your ability to create the reality that you want is directly determined by your willingness to experience its opposite.

- saving money will have you feeling broke while it's actually making you rich.
- setting boundaries will have you feeling alone while you're creating new healthy relationships in your life.
- digging up your trauma will have you feeling broken while it's actually healing you.
- working out has you feeling weak while it's really making you strong.
- learning something new makes you feel dumb while it's making you more intelligent.

your ability to attain the thing that you want is directly correlated with how willing you are to experience its opposite. you have to be ok with being uncomfortable to truly achieve success!

[heyayanda @hi_ayanda]

I love it when women have the emotional and financial resources to do this.

[aether @bluewdrift]

You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

if you spend all day at a fish market, you’ll leave smelling like fish, even if you never touched one

but spend your day in a perfume shop and you’ll carry the scent even if you didn’t buy anything, that’s how environment works. it rubs off, whether you realize it or not. stay around complainers and everything starts to look negative. stay around excuse makers and growth feels optional but get around people who move with purpose, you’ll feel it.

get around people who live in gratitude, you’ll start to see differently. the scent of your environment will always follow you.

[Cooper @Cooperstreaming]

I will always be pissed about this case. The cops had VIDEO evidence that Chrystul's trafficker was abusing about a dozen little girls. They knew he was a trafficker. And the courts decided she had no right to kill the man who did that to her.

Fuck every last one of them.

[Genie @lettersfromjuno]

Please stop telling the whole internet that no one lives with you

[Genie @lettersfromjuno]

I love that you have your own place but y’all are filming your views of your home on easily identifiable streets. Please stop

[Genie @lettersfromjuno]

Not trying to be too woke but I’m begging women who center their content on being alone and living alone to STOP filming the view of their apartment and the lot they park in. I get you think your content is catering to a harmless audience but 🙃

[ꪝe @_wej01]

A woman on IG said...
We just went to the African American history museum in DC (for the second time). As we got to the Emmett Till exhibit we was like “wait there is no Emmett”…

Yall…they have photoshopped him out of his casket. His mother is still seen crying over an empty box but they have removed ALL photos of his face (EVIDENCE of his brutal murder) from the entire exhibit. This goes directly against the point of his mother having an open casket. I’m writing a letter.

[𝓦 @noid3a_]

"Women are more emotional and tend to act less logically"

[Sophia @its_Sophia_24]

So let me get this straight, women are now NOT signing up for being an organ donor because the majority of organs are going to men and not women while women are the majority of said organ donation. Men get organ transplants pretty quickly while women wait years to get one?

[Miss Teddy 🌸❤️ @Miss_Teddy0]

Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.