Thinking a lot about the concept of maturity lately. I imagine for most, the ages of ~25-30 are illuminating for recognizing whether you're on the path to maturing naturally or whether you need to do some intentional course-correcting. 🧵
If you have difficult people that are close to you (family, work, friends), it's served me well to view them as 'hard mode' on training my self-knowledge / meditative equanimity / emotional fluidity
Feel like I have a good handle on boundaries? Give em a call, test yourself out
Humans don’t like uncertainty; we tend to actively avoid it.
It’s less about seeking certainty — for some things, this is impossible.
It’s more about creating coherence around the uncertainty — whether that be via faith or theories — that helps us cope with this fact.
Which is reminiscent of Walt Whitman in his poem “Song of Myself” as he turns this concept inward.
“Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself.
(I am large, I contain multitudes.)”
“Contradiction is a poor criterion of truth.
Many things that are certain are contradicted; many things that are false pass without contradiction. Contradiction is not a sign of falsehood, nor the lack of contradiction a sign of truth”
// Blaise Pascal
“To live in this world
you must be able
to do three things:
to love what is mortal;
to hold it
against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it
go,
to let it go.”
// Mary Oliver, In Blackwater Woods