@cantsmokehere This isn’t me shitting on you, I just really hate how modern therapy has made avoidance a part of trauma recovery. The whole point of recovery is that the trauma no longer significantly affects you! And for that to happen, you need to confront it directly.
@prettycritical lowkey a great idea for pills on the go tho? the packaging def screams recreational use but my meds get uv degradation in plastic bags 😔
no you're not feral during ovulation, no being a woman doesn't mean that you have an intrinsic urge to nurture, care and reproduce. just because you're suffering from extreme fatigue and burnout due to capitalism doesn't mean having jobs is the problem. women have always worked.
i know the creative director of one of biggest artists in the world right now, they run literally 100s of tiktok fan pages clipping ‘we made the right guy famous’ types of content whenever he drops a new song
The dead gf/wife who haunts the narrative trope is a product of misogyny writers want give male characters all the redeeming traits of a man in love without having to deal with actually writing a woman. the woman remains an idea instead of a real person w feelings & complexities
contrary to popular belief, while this may work in rare cases, statistics show that men who commit violent crimes towards women usually *do* target the polite/quiet ones because in they are seen as less likely to resist. so in other words: be loud, it’s a weirdo’s worst nightmare.
A controversial opinion of mine is that socialising is like exercise. Even if you don't feel in the mood to do it, you should still be doing it because it's good for you.