The way people respond to a bubbly personality really concerns me. Ever since I was a kid I noticed how people try to break your spirit when you’re too nice, too happy, too outgoing, too friendly. People that wanna know why you’re so gung-ho are unwell and are out to get you
i fear i’m unjudgeable😭 i’m painfully self aware & trust i’ve already argued both sides, accepted the criticism, defended myself, reflected on it 47 times & i forgave myself before you even opened your mouth🤣😭
SPOT THE DIFFERENCE
Carl said it was jarring to not have the girls in the villa….
KC: “Without the girls it’s more peaceful.”
Zach: “I can actually drink my coffee without having to worry about anyone else.” “Like has the sky always been this blue?” #LoveislandUSA
i dislike being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
My advice to women is to follow that hunch you have deep down—about everything. Your intuition is leading to your happiness. Everything else is noise & you can avoid a lot of hardship if you trust your own knowing above all else. Sharpen that skill by listening to your Self.
Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
I can understand someone’s behaviour without accepting it lol.. I’m extremely good at psychoanalysis and understanding why people behave the way they do however that does not mean I need to accept said person
I genuinely ADORE people that are well mannered. People that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others. People that carry themselves with humility. People that talk with so much gentleness. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak.
People want everyone to move past what KC did & it’s not happening here. He punished a woman for not picking him or giving him her body. He degraded her behind her back, gaslit her, tried to humiliate her, didn’t apologize and blamed her & her friends. That’s evil behavior.