I don’t get why mums cannot just rest when they’re at home. They’ll be running up and down, looking for work that doesn’t exist. This is after complaining that “oh I don’t rest in this house”. Stay in one place please 😂😭.
Be with someone who strengthens your personal brand. I’m not talking about aesthetics. I’m talking about someone who represents you positively; who shares your values, who believes in your vision, who complements you. Someone you can be proud of, who is also proud of you.
When the spirit is weak, the mind runs errands for the flesh by thinking negative thoughts. But when we constantly build our spirit by communion with Holy Spirit, our mind comes under the influence of the Word of God and Holy Spirit who lives in us.
Love at first sight is desire. Love isn’t a feeling. It’s consistent action. Love requires skill sets: the ability to navigate conflict, emotional intelligence, and empathy. We know nothing about a persons capacity by sight.
Take your time.
Attempting to prove yourself to people who are committed to disliking you is pointless. The greatest thing you can do for yourself is to focus on your happiness and build a purpose filled, love filled, joy filled life that you adore.
The search for "the one" is unrealistic.
There is no magic person out there.
Love is a practice. It takes intentional effort from both people.
Every person has toxic traits, flaws, and annoying habits.
We need to mourn the idea of a perfect person.
Let’s normalize healthy two parent homes, raising resilient, responsible and God-fearing children. Let’s come back to God’s original design for the family unit.
Good, clear communication doesn't work with everyone. Especially people who've decided your perspective isn't relevant.
They aren't open to understanding, to validating both of your perspectives, or to having a good faith interpretation.
Relationships should feel: uplifting, supportive, and overall mutually beneficial.
Of course there will be ‘tough times’ and painful moments. People will hurt us. We all hurt each other.
But if pain, hurt, and resentment are all that’s present, it might be time to choose yourself.