You see proximity?
Yes, proximity. That's all it takes for your wife or girlfriend to do something contrary to your marital vows or promises. And vice versa.
While factors like status and looks compel attraction, proximity operationalises it. It sets it in motion.
In proximity, conversations happen. Gestures are made. Assistance is rendered. Compliments flow. Familiarity grows. And with this, what once existed as a mere inkling magnifies into feeling and desire.
This is why your girlfriend gets into the university and suddenly becomes "busy" all the time. She is crushing on someone, talking to someone with whom she now shares proximity.
Because attraction is not destiny. It is simply two people, in the same place, at the same time, finding each other sufficiently safe to risk vulnerability. Human beings are always looking to take that risk. Emotion merely supplies the excuse.
But what is the message in all of this?
The message is simple and straightforward: principles are easy when proximity is absent.
"I trust my woman."
"I don't check my woman's phone."
"She can have as many male friends as she likes."
These convictions are often made in the comfort of distance, before life introduces that co-worker, classmate, business partner, a neighbour, gym instructor, or the FRIENDLY superior at Work.
The real threat to a relationship is rarely attraction in isolation. Attraction is common. Proximity is what gives attraction the opportunity to negotiate with conscience.
This is why wise men do not merely manage feelings; they manage circumstances.
Because loyalty is easier maintained at a distance than it is tested in constant proximity.
Check that f*cking phone early enough. Tell her you see her conversation with a particular colleague and it's too personal. Look for the signs. And make your warnings early.
But then, I have said enough.
Good luck. Or, congratulations.
I get money for anything you wanna eat and drink when you come over
I get money for taking US out to places I wanna see as well
I get money for affording soft lifestyle for myself( you can tag)
I no get money for wigs, to change your phone or your family issue, or back to back craving or clubbing for Snapchat aesthetics!!
I remember the first day I met my husband 😭
I billed him on our first date.
He paid for my Uber.
I ate food worth over 100k and he still got me takeaways.
A week later, I billed him for a wig.
He came through too 😂
Before meeting him, I had already decided I was done being the “understanding girlfriend.”
I wasn’t going to stress myself trying to earn love anymore.
Whoever wanted to stay would stay.
For the first 2 months of dating, I didn’t cook for him.
I didn’t do his laundry.
I didn’t clean his house.
Yet within those same 2 months:
He introduced me to his family.
He met mine.
We did our introduction.
It was only after that I started doing the little things naturally.
We got married in the 3rd month.
Today, we’re 6 years married with kids and I have zero regrets ❤️
The funny thing is that before him, I had been in relationships where I was cooking, washing clothes, cleaning houses, doing everything imaginable…
And they still left.
That’s when I learned something:
What works for one woman may not work for another.
Doing the most won’t make someone stay.
Doing the least won’t make the right person leave.
Sometimes, the people who want you make it easy.
And the people who don’t… no amount of sacrifice will convince them.
Who will stay, will stay.
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Funny people
I believe you saw what happened in the last election? Thugs carrying ballot boxes, threatening to shoot citizens if they don’t vote for their choice thereby rigging the election. Wo
For the first time in history women aren't marrying men for money, or materialistic things, it's about character, behavior now and honestly, most men are failing hard.
You Dey make me vex i swear
E get some kind nonsense you no suppose reply. You’ve giving irrelevant people the attention they seek.
Sometimes I Dey question this idolo I Dey call you.
This small boy is a bit stupid
Funny when i made that post i wasn’t even thinking him
Thread carefully
And know the replies you give in your comments.
Enjoy being faceless because you can always rebrand
No try this nonsense again