İlişkinizin uzun sürmesini istiyorsanız, partnerinizi rahatsız eden şeyleri değiştirmeniz gerekir. Onları inciten şeyleri yapmaya devam edip sonra da hiçbir şey olmamış gibi davranamazsınız. Bazen seçtiğiniz kişiyi korumak için başkalarını hayal kırıklığına uğratmanız gerekir. Bu, birini sevmenin bir parçasıdır. Partnerinizin bir şeyin neden onu rahatsız ettiğini tekrar tekrar anlatmasına gerek kalmamalıdır. Saygı, ilk seferde dinlemek demektir. Bir şeyin neden canını acıttığını tekrar tekrar açıklamak zorunda kalmamalıdırlar. Bir kez söylediklerinde, bu yeterli olmalıdır.
A healthy relationship will show you that there's no such thing as "this is who I am, accept it or walk away." When you truly love a person, you address those negative or toxic habits and you learn to communicate, you listen to each other's feelings, thoughts and emotions. Being with the right person makes you want to be a better you.
I finally figured out that true love isn't about the high, the butterflies, or the easy moments.
It's about choosing someone even when it's hard, when the spark fades, when life gets tough, when you're not feeling it, but you still show up. That's real love.
And if you walk away just because it gets hard, you'll never know how beautiful it could ve been when you chose to stay and build something stronger.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
It's about choosing to stay. Choosing to try.
Choosing each other, again and again.
It might not look like a movie. It might not be Instagram-worthy every day. But if it feels like home, even on the hard days, then you are right where you are meant to be.
They say a relationship works only if the guy loves more than the girl and now I think I understand why.
For a guy, what he feels matters.
For a girl, how he makes her feel matters. He won't leave as long as he loves you and she won't leave as long as she feels loved.
tout
te marier
t’apaiser
te prioriser
te respecter
te protéger
te rassurer
te gâter par son amour pour toi
Tout ce qui te fais sourire et te rendre heureuse il le fera.