Ladies I’m telling you this
The 24 hours MINIMUM after you have your baby are YOURS!
It’s not about grandparents feelings and what’s fair and who got what
Heal, latch that baby, and figure out visits when you’re ready
Your concern is your baby. Not who’s held them
Nope. The dynamics between the new mom and then maternal and paternal grandmother are completely different. My mom is still a mom first, and she was there to take care of me and make my nostalgic childhood soup and help with my laundry. My MIL was there as a grandmother and just wanted to hold the baby, yap about how much he looks like her great uncle twice removed, and even sprawled out on my couch while I was having to stand like 4 days after birth.
A new mom shouldn’t have to deal with nonsense and if anyone, grandparents or other, want to see a freshly newborn baby then they shouldn’t be annoying
Isn’t the main difference that you are laying there naked, bleeding, milk leaking, and your own mother has seen you naked and it’s your own bloodline but your inlaws it would be way more awkward and inappropriate?
Why is waiting an extra 24 hours until you go home and are dressed, settled in, etc. for them to come see the baby a huge deal ?
Vous croisez un animal innocent et votre premier réflexe c’est de lui coller des affiches sur le pelage. Mais à quel point faut-il être diabolique pour avoir un tel comportement ?
Anyway I learned yesterday that ppl with ADHD and/or autism often have really really REALLY strong senses of justice and fairness. So now I know why I react so strongly when ppl do things that are shitty. Don't do shitty things, guys! You'll stress out the ADHD/autistic folks!
BREAKING: Scientists confirm that estrogen supports dopamine regulation. When estrogen drops in perimenopause, ADHD symptoms intensify. Women who were managing for decades stop being able to. The crash is not in your head. It is in your blood chemistry.
A woman was gang-raped in a bus in Delhi, yet no TV news channel even bothering to cover the news.
Is this the same India where the media & ppl came together after the Nirbhaya incident and shook the govt?
Or have we, as a nation, collectively given up and become dead inside?