Sink your metal deep, and make sure it holds before taking your next step. And if you fall, don't scream. You don't want that to be the last thing she remembers.
This woman just said the quiet part out loud and I felt every single word.
“You are not just marrying a person, you are marrying their childhood, their coping mechanisms… the fact that they leave one sip of juice in the refrigerator like a sociopath.”
Oh my goodness. Because why is that so accurate??
And then she continues with:
“Marriage is basically two exhausted people trying not to psychologically waterboard each other during tax season.”
I'm not lying. That line alone is a public service announcement.
The real ones though:
- Love is not enough. Shared values matter more.
- The goal isn’t to stay the same forever... it’s can we keep meeting each new version of each other with curiosity instead of resentment?
- Love mostly lives in boring Tuesday behavior.
- Your partner cannot be your entire universe. That is too much pressure for one nervous system.
I’ve been married long enough to know she’s not exaggerating a single thing. The forehead kiss and the “I picked this up because I thought you’d like it” hits harder than any anniversary post ever could.
Successful marriages really are just two people who decided to grow up instead of just grow older.
What’s the best marriage advice? Drop it below. Let’s educate (and mildly traumatize) each other.
Kisumu National Polytechnic will launch its Sh1.2 billion textile factory in January 2027.
The World Bank-funded facility will train students and produce garments, covering the entire process from cotton spinning to finished clothing
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
Stop Putting Your Kids in a Box
If You Talk Too Much, Start a Podcast
If you talk too much, start a podcast
If you argue too much, become a lawyer
If you notice everything, become a designer
If you're too competitive, build a business
If you're too sensitive, create art
If you overthink too much, become a strategist
If you ask too many questions, become a researcher
If you care too much, help others
If you daydream too much, tell stories
If you're too obsessed, master your craft
If you think differently, create something
My CS for Defence has tendered her resignation. She has, ipso facto, been stripped of all royal privileges, titles and honours, and excommunicated from the Kingdom for causing His Majesty untold emotional distress.
The King requests privacy during this difficult time.